There are four key lessons that I learned during the first month of my job search journey. My hope is that you may benefit from these…
Networking Is Taking Place All the Time
In marked contrast to most people, I had not viewed my social media activities at all as networking. I just saw them as fun as well as an activity which helped broaden my knowledge of the field and extend that of others.
However, I soon learned that in fact, I was networking even if I had thought I wasn’t….
One kind twitter friend who learned of my interest in looking for a job when I was visiting a chat sent me a direct message providing me with his email address and offering to connect via linkedin so as to open his connections to me.
A second thoughtful twitter friend introduced me via email to a mental health professional in another state on the off chance that an exchange of information/help could be made… and indeed, the end result of that exchange was that her referral offered me the opportunity to participate in a training next Spring.
A third caring twitter friend whom I had just “met” a short while ago and has since become more of a close friend, offered to help put me in touch with a couple of his contacts in New Jersey.
I am most touched by the kindness of my twitter/blogger friends…
Takeaway: Anyone anywhere may be someone you can help connect or vice versa!
People May Be Difficult to Reach
Some people may be hard to get a hold of because they are very busy; others may have switched positions and/or be in the middle of a company restructuring.
For example, I tried repeatedly to reach the former director of the department at the outpatient mental health clinic where I interned this year only to find out that he was now employed at another hospital. I now have his new contact information so that I may follow up with him there.
As another illustration, after emailing and then following up with a phone call to the former director of another place where I had worked, I learned that it was going through a massive restructuring. This is why she had no time to call me back… However, on the positive side, I was able to provide her with some information about linkedin and how it would be to her advantage to set up a profile on it etc. so that she would be prepared when she needed to focus her time and effort on a job search of her own.
Takeaway: Be prepared to reach out to some of your contacts many times (also, keep in mind mutual contacts to verify that your information is up-to-date)
Life Gets In the Way
Aside from still going to school, I had other things going on simultaneously; therefore, I was unable to put in as much effort in my job search as I would have otherwise. At the same time, I also knew that I had some flexibility in this regard with my official graduation date only coming up at the end of September.
That said, I would like to be a bit more focused this month vs. my first month. As a result, I think I may be inclined to put my job search updates on hold or to give them once every 4 to 6 weeks. In addition, I will probably try to cut back a bit on some of my twitter activity. This is one of my major time guzzlers…
Takeaway: When life gets in the way, set priorities…scale back on one or two key time-draining activities
Shyness May Be a Hindrance
While I had the opportunity to attend two events this past month in which I could have naturally mentioned my desire to find a position for September, I did not because of my shyness…
This is NOT a good thing. I need to find a way to overcome this. My hope is that as I pick up speed this month with reaching out via email and phone calls, I will naturally start feeling more at ease also mentioning my job search interest in conversation with people in face to face conversations.
Takeaway: When shy, practice a few lines with a friend to help you feel more at ease
Moving onto 2 helpful job search tools:
As per @KatherineJMoody, when interviewing for a position, it is important to differentiate yourself from all other candidates. To that end, you want to create a positioning statement and in this short video clip, Katherine provides easy-to-follow guidelines on how to do this.
Why Should We Hire You? By Katherine Moody
24 Phone Networking Scripts for Job Seekers– is a second wonderful resource from Katherine. I discovered this tool thanks to Donna Svei @AvidCareerist. It may be helpful to you in planning what you are going to say when you make your phone calls to reach out to people.
It gives you different suggestions based upon what your goal is, how long it has been since you’ve been in touch with the person and other situational criteria. As I mentioned in First Week on Job Search Journey, I found preparing and having a script on hand a big anxiety reducing tool. This still holds true, whether or not I am “using” the script.
Now, let’s briefly review my goals for last time:
- Follow-up with the unreachable person from prior post – Done
- Follow-up with the third contact from this year’s placement – Done
- Send email to third person at last year’s placement – Done
- Send an email to one of my professors with the purpose of setting up a meeting – Done and already met with one professor. Made some revisions to my resume following this meeting (key changes included: adding keywords, an objective and splitting my experience into social work experience and business experience)
- Put together a basic cover letter and ask one of my professors to look it over – Not yet; however, I received confirmation from the professor with whom I met that I need not explain the reason for my career transition in my cover letter. This is just something that I should be prepared to explain in the interview. Knowing this will now make drafting the basic cover letter much easier.
- Put together a list of job sites on which I should put job alerts – Done and set up job alerts on the following key sites: indeed, monsterjobs, socialworkjobbank.com and idealist.org. There are other sites but these sites capture the majority of positions.
This Month’s Goals:
- Draft a basic cover letter and run it by one contact
- Draft responses to some potential interview questions
- Attend at least one professional event in which I am likely to meet other mental health professionals and mention my job search to at least one person
- Reach out to more contacts (set a goal of at least 12 people)
- Perhaps arrange for a mock interview at my school’s career office
So that’s the update by me. How is your job search going? What advice/guidance would you add?
Photo Credit: Golden Gate Bridge by Patrick Hoesly
Terry says
Hi Dorlee:
As always, your post is most valuable and down-to-earth. I really like the way you make your job search insights “real” and honest. These are things people go through on a day to day basis.
I’m also interested in seeing Katherine Moody’s networking scripts – I’m sure I will find some useful tips to share with my own clients (and I will give her credit, of course)!
Thanks to you and Katherine.
DorleeM says
Hi Terry,
Thanks so much for your kind feedback ๐
You and your clients will LOVE Katherine Moody’s networking scripts. They are great for looking at to ease the initial jitters…
Best,
Dorlee
Sharon S says
Hi Dorlee,
This is another great post and a video worth listening too…It is very useful to have a professional look over your resume and help with a basic cover letter. I found some generic cover letter’s and tailored them to my specific goals.
I’m not sure if you mentioned these sites, but monster.com and careerbuilder.com also have good job postings. I am currently looking at all of the sites and applying to jobs where I am eligible.
You make a good point about cutting back from things that take a lot of personal time out of the day. I have been focusing on the job search first, then misc. chores, so when I have time for social media, I don’t feel like it is taking away from my goal.
I like this series of job blog postings…we are both on the same track. I wish you luck with your search once you really dig in.
Mozart says
thank you for sharing this resource dorleem and your career journey.
DorleeM says
Hi Sharon and Mozart,
Thank you both for your interest and support! Thanks also, Sharon, for sharing some additional job sites that may be helpful.
It sounds like you have found a good method of juggling your job search with your other responsibilities.
Yes, with respect to social media – leaving it as a fun reward after one has completed one’s “to do” list on the job search front – may be an effective way of having it still be a part of your life without it becoming too much of a time guzzler.
Thanks so much for being partners along my journey! And wishing you much good luck as well ๐
Ari Hahn says
Camprehensive and well done, my friend! Although this stuff can be found in all sorts of sites, books, etc, coming from you as you are actually going through it and integrating it is very powerful.
Regarding the youtube piece here: I am walking out to talk to the president of my college to propose a project. He has a problem (retention of students) I am have a solution that is unique and has a high lieklihood of solving much of his problem. While I already have a job, it is the same skills and outlook you are presenting that I am utilizing right now.
So those same skills are good for many situations, even when you have that job. (Which I hope you land quickly!)
DorleeM says
Thanks so much, Ari, for your kind feedback as well as for illustrating how the problem, action and result approach can be an effective presentation tool during one’s career and not just during an interview for a potential new job.
Anonymous says
Your point about finding your previous supervisor resonates with me. I am hesitant about request connecting to supervisors and professors on LinkedIn, even though some fellow students & interns seem to have no problem. I’m going to put into my routine asking to connect ‘on the way out,’ when there has been a solid interaction. After all, interns and newer mental health professionals are not just asking for a favor by sending a LinkedIn request (or other form of professional-social networking link). People in the field need to have a stock of new – and affordable! – referrals on hand too.
About the shy part – as an INFP (very I, very N), I flee from networking events. I have done very well, though, in contexts like professional workshops open to grad students. There is a common focus, and people are coming expecting to learn new things and meet people with less ‘agenda pressure.’ A comment or question gives people a glimpse, and the breaks are perfect for introductions. At one event in NYC last year, I got asked by a participant how long I had been licensed (!). I took her card, keep in touch, and recall that moment when it seems like I’m never going to be qualified enough to help others.
Keep up the good work…search! ๐
-Thomas
DorleeM says
Thanks so much, Thomas, for sharing some of your experiences and learned lessons.
Yes, I agree that asking people to connect “on the way out” is a good practice.
Regarding my professors at my school, I would personally hesitate to ask them to connect because of the ambivalence that surrounds social media in our profession (at my school). Perhaps I may try to do this a year later…
Thanks for totally getting how I feel at networking events ๐ Thanks for sharing how you found ways to manage despite being very I and N in the INFP profile. I too feel more comfortable at learning workshop type of events.
With much appreciation for all your support,
Dorlee
Tamara G. Suttle, M.Ed., LPC says
Dorlee! I’m loving the takeaways and the resources you are providing here. And, I am in AWE of your transparency and your organization on your job search! You go, girl!
You are an inspiration to us all!
DorleeM says
Thanks so much, Tamara, for your kind feedback and encouragement ๐